Resources & Links



Cloke, Kenneth. The Crossroads of Conflict: A Journey Into the Heart of Dispute Resolution (2006).

Fisher, Roger & Shapiro, Daniel. Beyond Reason: Using Your Emotions as You Negotiate (2005).

Fisher, Roger & Ury, William. Getting to Yes: Negotiating Agreement Without Giving In (1981).

Friedman, Gary & Himmelstein, Jack. Challenging Conflict: Mediation Through Understanding (2008).

Mnookin, Robert et al. Beyond Winning (2000).

Lawyer/Therapist Co-Mediation (Chapter)



Ahrons, Constance. The Good Divorce: Keeping Your Family Together When Your Marriage Comes Apart (1994).

Ford, Debbie. Spiritual Divorce: Divorce as a Catalyst for an Extraordinary Life (2001).

Hannibal, Mary Ellen. Good Parenting Through Your Divorce (2007).

Kalter, Neil. Growing Up With Divorce: Helping Your Child Avoid Immediate and Later Emotional Problems (1990).

Mandelstein, Paul. Being a Great Divorced Father— A New Practical Guide Tells Divorced Dads How to Keep their Kids in their Life and Create a Healthy Family Environment (2010).

Netter, Perry. Divorce is a Mitzvah: A Practical Guide to Finding Wholeness and Holiness When Your Marriage Dies (2002).

Ricci, Isolina. Mom’s House, Dad’s House (1997).

Ricci, Isolina. Mom’s House, Dad’s House For Kids (2006).

Ricci, Isolina. The Co-Parenting Toolkit (2012).

Teyber, Edward. Helping Children Cope With Divorce (2001).

Divorce and Post-Divorce Support Groups

Lucas Valley Community Church. (415) 479-8987

Online custody-sharing/coordinating sites

Model parenting plan

Divorce Education Programs

Cooperative Parenting 101 (San Rafael, CA)
Frederica Conrad, Ph.D.
Sheryl Hausman

Children in the Middle
Kids’ Turn (415) 437-0700